Archives for 2008

I Think the Kid Party Subculture Is Out to Get Me!

Why is it that whatever party theme I choose is the one theme for which invitations, cupcake decorations, balloons, and party favors cannot be found?

For example, at Susanna’s third Cinderella party, I couldn’t find Cinderella. (Now she’s everywhere.) This year, the lack of Jasmine cupcake toppers nearly sent me into a crying meltdown in the Publix bakery. (Thankfully, said cupcake toppers were excavated from the bottom of the bakery cupcake decoration box just 2 hours prior to the party. I was gleefully jumping up and down in the same spot where I’d almost had a breakdown 48 hours earlier.)

Now, today, I run into Target–Target! the place where one can find anything, right?–to pick up Thomas the Train party invitations. They are already late. The boys’ party is on the 19th, and I still don’t have the invitations in the mail.

Guess what? No Thomas invitations! None. Nada. Zip. They have Spongebob, Dora, and pirates. No Thomas.

Not exactly sure where to go next.

Oh, Thomas invitations… where are you????

(And sometimes, I’m still taken aback that this is where my world revolves now.)

Ladies’ Church Retreat

Yes! We REALLY did talk about the Bible.

Last weekend, the ladies of Good Shepherd Presbyterian Church went on a retreat to Monteagle. We stayed at a lovely Victorian house, which belongs to dear friends of our church family. It’s called “The Happy Castle.” That’s because one is instantaneously exuberant upon cresting the mountain!

We had a great time minding a super-loose schedule, dining out, snacking until midnight, and sleeping until 8:30 a.m. We had too much fun laughing about all the weird names of people we had known throughout our lives.

Our pastor’s wife, Diane Filson, and another woman, Carolyn Page, brought devotions and thoughts on their favorite Scriptures. We also played a few cute games, which gave us several laughs.

Debi Haggard

We tested our improv acting skills!

Lauren Kelley, Laura Coughlin, and Helen Settles

Diane Filson

Carolyn Page

Susanna Is Five!

Susanna turned five years old on March 31. We had a Princess Jasmine party. We had so much fun!

Seth & Spencer were thrilled to go to a party and eat cake, even if they were a little jealous none of the presents were for them!

Mimi and Nana at the party.

Easter Morning


Easter was early this year.

It was cold! I remember when Susanna was born in 2003, she was 2 weeks old on Easter. This year, Easter was 1 week before her birthday.

Aren’t my men handsome?

Isn’t my princess beautiful?

Early Morning Deep Discussion

heaven - questions about heavenSusanna woke up at 5 a.m. today. She said she had a bad dream, plus it was storming.

Are you surprised at all that she never went back to sleep?

I have been plopped into a family of early risers. I’m convinced this is some type of twisted Karma (I don’t really believe in Karma, but this situation certainly makes a good case for its existence) for all those mornings of my teenage years that I slept until noon. All of those school mornings that I scrambled to get ready in 20 minutes because I’d sleep until the last second. All of those Sundays my entire family was waiting for me in the car because I was too tired to get up at the right time to get ready. All of those 8 a.m. college classes that I managed to drag myself into by 8:15.

Yep–I’m being paid back really good!

So, anyway, all my kids get up early. Today was no exception.

Susanna crawled in bed with me; Chris vacated to her room to sleep his last 30 minutes. As we were trying to go back to sleep, Susanna started some deep thinking.

Somehow the conversation turned to our spending eternity with Jesus in heaven and having the opportunity to meet loved ones who had passed on before us. Sassy (our dearly departed dog of almost 1 year now) is always included in that discussion. The rest went like this:

S: Mommy, what does Heaven look like?
M: Well, no one on Earth really knows for sure. The Bible says that it’s perfect and beautiful. Beautiful like jewelry!
S: Mommy, will we sleep in Heaven?
M: I’m not sure. Right now, we sleep on Earth because our bodies need the rest. But in Heaven we’ll have perfect bodies. We may not need to sleep!
S: Mommy, who created pajamas that we sleep in?
M: I have no idea!
S: Mommy, lightning can kill you.
M: Yes, yes, it can.
S: There’s a lot of ways you can die. If someone shoots you, you can die.
M: Uh-hmmm.